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A Dog Bite and Matthew 5:44
(This article originally appeared in the TAU-USA Summer 2025 Issue #116)
by Jane De-Rose Bamman, OFS
National Minister
Recently, a dog bit me. At our initial encounter, he seemed friendly but as he was passing me, he turned around to bite my leg. Not a nip – a real bite! I did nothing to provoke it. But who really knows … the dog didn’t give me a reason for the action.
That experience made me ponder our relationships, especially with our enemies. Although we don’t always recognize them at first, people who can harm us do exist.
Daily we pray: “… he promised of old that he would save us from our enemies, from the hands of all who hate us.” (Lk 1:70-71). Then in Matt 5:44, Jesus said “… love your enemies, and pray for those who persecute you.”
These scripture passages challenge us to consider what an enemy is and who our enemies are. According to The American Heritage Dictionary, enemy comes from the Latin word inimicus which means “bad friend.”
Do I have any human enemies? Is there anyone in my family, fraternity, community or in the world, I view as an enemy or a bad friend? No one comes to mind. But I do avoid those whose actions irritate me or who are arrogant or rude. Enemies? Sort of.
Does an enemy need to know that they are considered an enemy to truly be one? Does it have to be mutual with each person hating the other? If it is just in my mind, does it meet the definition of an enemy?
Matt 5:44 calls us to love our enemies. In one case, I considered a former coworker, now a competitor, as an enemy. I harbored ill feelings because I felt the coworker had badmouthed my husband, Brian, and me. I did not want to be around that person at all. Instead of killing the relationship, it was time for me to apply Matt 5:44 – a work in progress. People of various cultures may be viewed as enemies because of differences or their impact on the environment. Neighbors may be considered enemies because of noise levels or unkept yards, harming your sense of peace and quiet or property value. Fraternity brothers or sisters may be thought of as enemies because they ask us to do something we don’t agree with, or we don’t feel we are treated with the respect we deserve. Am I willing to love my enemies and pray for those who persecute me – including family members? I am willing to try.
I have been guilty of assuming something about a perceived enemy and come to find out the person had no intent of harm at all. I just needed to get to know the person or the full story behind the circumstances.
The wisdom of the Gospel call to love our enemies is a prompt to be in relationship with these persons. Sometimes when coexisting you can see the benefits of another. Having a relationship with an enemy may actually turn that person into a friend.
Although I choose to try to apply Matt 5:44 instead of harboring ill will towards a “bad friend,” I will still be cautious with stray dogs in the neighborhood.
2025
A Dog Bite and Matthew 5:44 TAU-USA 116 Summer 2025
Are You Listening? TAU-USA 115 Spring 2025
Are You Filled With Hope? TAU-USA 114 Winter 2025
2024
Renewal-What Does It Mean To Us? TAU-USA 111 Spring 2024
You Are Love – Fraternity is our Workshop TAU-USA 112 Summer 2024
TO BE SERVED OR TO SERVE TAU-USA 113 Fall 2024
2023
Building Relationships with the help of Jesus TAU 110 fall 2023
Good Communication TAU_109_Sp_2023
Priorities Ministers Message TAU_108_win_23
2022
What A Difference Six Months Make TAU _107_fal_2022
Franciscan Jubilee – Minister’s Message TAU-USA Summer 2022
“Great Things Can Happen” – Minister’s Message Spring 2022
2021
- National Minister’s Message – “Who We Are” – TAU-USA Fall 2021
- Minister’s Message – “Chosen for Each Other” – TAU-USA Spring-Summer 2021
- Minister’s Message – “A Call to Prophetic Creativity” TAU-USA Winter 2020/2021
2020
2019
- National Minister’s Christmas Message -2019
- National Minister’s Message – TAU-USA Summer/Fall 2019
- OFS Mission Opportunity – To Assist Migrants and Refugees
- National Minister Message TAU-USA Spring 2019
- 2019 Easter Message from National Minister OFS
- Easter Messages From Our National and International Ministers
- Good Friday Collection for the Holy Land
2018
- September 2018 – Formation Visioning Workshop
- June 2018 – Our Jubilee Begins! (40th anniversary of our Rule)
- May 2018 – National Fraternity Elective Chapter
- May 2018 – Prepare for Pentecost!
- February 2018 – As Lent Begins
2017
- August 2017 – Contemplating the Cross and the Lent of St. Michael
- TAU-USA Spring 2017 – When Things are Out of Order
- June 2017 – Pentecost Message from International Minister
- June 2017 – Pentecost Message from National Minister
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2016
- January 18, 2016 – Love for All, Life for All, One in God
- January 1, 2016 – Happy Q Year!
2015
- Christmas 2015 – O Sweet Gift of Christmas!
- December 2015 – The Moment of Mercy
- Advent 2015 – Finding Joy in Our Littleness
2014
- October 2014 – Please Pray that Third Decade of the Rosary for our One Secular Franciscan Order and our Four Fraternities
- March 2014 – Another, Perhaps Lenten, Look at “Fair Share” With a Short and a Long Answer
- January 2014 – New Things for the New Year 2014: Temporary Suspension or Permanent Dismissal? Being the Merciful Presence of God
2013
- February 2013 – Conversion Times Three
2012
- October 2012 – National Minister’s Annual Report to the Order
- June 2012 – Please Join Us in Presence or in Prayer at the 2012 National Secular Franciscan Quinquennial Congress!
- March 2012 – I Thirst
- January 2012 – Gathered Around the Manger in 2012
2011
- September 2011 – Summer Vacations
- May 2011 – The Road to Emmaus
- March 2011 – The Beatitudes of Penance
- January 2011 – The Joy and Mystery of the Incarnation
2010
- December 2010 – Prepare the way of the Lord!
- August 2010 – The Heart of Our Faith is the Person of Jesus Christ
- June 2010 – Taking, Blessing, Breaking, Giving
- May 2010 – The Blessed Mother, St. Francis and All of Us
- April 2010 – The San Damiano Crucifix
- February 2010 – Brothers and Sisters of Penance
- January 2010 – Come and March for Life in Prayer
2009
- December 2009 – Greccio
- November 2009 – Five Things It Takes to Get to Heaven